Scope of Work

What I can do for you

ORGANIZATIONS and TEAMS

Provide training on emotional intelligence, team dynamics, anti-oppression, and "calling in" practices
Consult on specific workplace dynamics and conflicts

SEXUALITY and INTIMACY

Consult with you and recommend strategies to untangle complex experiences and get "unstuck" in intimacy issues
Provide training on topics including relational intelligence, communication, sex positivity, pleasure, desire, and consent

FAMILIES and COUPLES

Coach you to improve dynamics and communication
Support you to connect with your children about boundaries, change, sexuality, and family dynamics

Please connect with me to tailor training and consultative services.

FOR EDUCATORS

Emotionally Intelligent Sex Education

Embodied Games: Learning while moving

Experience play and exercises that move your body and make you laugh
Adapt exercises to your own context, including sexual consent, decision making, relationships, bullying, and sex positivity

Empathic Facilitation: Making emotions work for you not against you

Engage with emotions in curious, non-defensive ways
Use tools from Non-Violent Communication, Creative Facilitation, and mindfulness
Reveal needs within complex facilitation and teaching scenarios and strategize on how to address them

Pleasure: Place & Revolution

Investigate what pleasure is, how it is felt, its universality and nuances
Contemplate pleasure as a possible site for revolution and reimagination
Volunteer visual recorders draw, paint, and write in real time alongside session

FOR ORGANIZATIONS

LGBTQ Competency Toolbox

Address sexuality, gender, body diversity, family structures, and reproductive options in your professional context
Increase self-awareness, learn language and scripts, deepen understanding, and develop confidence to mitigate harm

Emotional Intellgience for Professionals

Understand and be relatable to clients who are in conflict, fearful, ashamed, isolated, or otherwise distressed
Increase trust and problem-solving ability within intense situations
Save time and unnecessary frustration

Calling In: Doing Social Justice Compassionately

Understand and practice "Calling in": Addressing systemic injustice, ignorance, and carelessness with compassion
Strengthen communities through dialogue and dignity, using skills you can develop over time

Anti-Oppression: Theory and practice

Develop skills to work and communicate across all differences
Contextualize practice through a brief history social justice movements and a rationale for anti-oppression
Understand buzzwords and what they really mean (like racialization, decolonization, ableism, sex worker rights, heteronormativity, transphobia, internalization, harm reduction, mad pride, genderqueer)
Apply skills and knowledge to real-life

FOR INDIVIDUALS & COUPLES

Consent in Action

Discuss how sexual consent actually happens in real life
Balance the limits of energy and time, fear, courage, curiosity, against the interest in maintaining relationship harmony, and the ghosts from past experiences
Promote self-compassion and community support towards making consent culture real

Desire as Felt Experience

Reframe desire as how you'd like to feel instead of what you'd like to do
Understand and articulate your desires through exercises, reflection, and discussion

Guilt-free Boundaries

Recognize your boundaries and set them kindly, clearly, and firmly
Increase your tolerance for witnessing other people's disappointment, hurt, or embarrassment
Develop practical consent skills: Be good to others without betraying yourself

Sexuality as Play: Cultivating creativity and authenticity

Mine your heart and mind for how you can improvise life, both professional and personal
Complementary to my video "Jam"

Rediscovering Desire / Relationship Booster

Connect to your self, your desires and pleasures, and to those you care for through games, private reflection, and discussion